Wednesday, July 16, 2008

All for not!

Wow, have you ever sacrificed everything for an opportunity to think for a moment there would be greener grass on the other side?

I come to you this a.m. with a distinction about the choices we make and those we choose to surround ourselves with.

Yes, I know I have mentioned surrounding yourself with champions in life and what happens when you've done that and you are the one who isn't the champion?

What happens when you are the one who is so driven by negativity that it affects the relationships around you?

What happens when you sell someone on a dream a goal a desire of hope where they sacrifice things such as relationships with other people and healthy balance and self-love?

I am always writing as if you are so enlightened and what if... just what if you are the one doing the hurting?

What does this mean?  This means that when you start pointing the finger as to why someone is not giving you what you need, just take a look at who you are being with that person.  

Listen, I am the first to admit that I am not perfect, but their is an integrity that comes with being a person who can honestly take a look at a situation and move it in a positive motion.  Part of moving in a positive motion is taking a situation for "face value" and recognizing  what is needed in a given situation.

I know this is food for thought, and believe me this comes from a few distinctions I have made myself.

Take all of the above for what it may be worth to you!

tam

1 comment:

Baby said...

Maybe people should stop always looking for greener grass and just be happy when they find GREEN grass in their life. People have lost their since of happiness when it comes to the people around them. They judge their happiness by the things in life instead of the people IN their life.
So what do YOU do when you have misplaced what is important in your relationship with those close to you? And do you learn from your mistakes and do whatever it takes to make the important things shine again?